Thanks to this website, it has made a difference to my well being in handling grief after losing my girl, Fifi almost 2 months ago now. I hope she knows that i am missing her. Over the last few days, i have started to feel better but is it normal to feel guilty for feeling better? Sometimes, i feel guilty that maybe Fifi will think i have forgotten about her? Last week on Thursday, i finally got my "Fifi Ring" - it's an amethyst stone i found at the Jewellers next door and as soon as i saw it, it reminded me of Fifi. I decided right there and then to get a ring done to commemorate my girl. I have Fifi inscribed around the ring so i know i will never forget her. This ring i wear all the time. Every night and every day i also light 3 candles if not 5 for Fifi. I miss her so much and today, i am sad again. I think when i give myself time to think it hits me in the chest and my gut to realise that I won't see Fifi for a long time. I have recommended this website to a friend who lost their cat late last week. I feel for them, i know how isolating it is grieving for our four legged babies. People can be so cruel with their comments. I hope they visit this website as it has done a lot for me over the many weeks.