Dear Bearzz, I am so sorry to hear about your shocking loss. My heart aches for you and for your friend. I can't imagine how she must feel. I hope you will find some measure of comfort in knowing that either of you would have done anything in your power to have prevented this terrible accident from happening. I'm sure you are aware of that, and I know that it doesn't change the fact that you are in shock, and you are devastated. Shock and loss are so hard to deal with. The best way I have found to deal with them is to let them flow, but to also remember the good times. Even though the tears flow for a while, the smiles will shine through and eventually take over. Be gentle with yourselves. Remember to eat healthy foods and get what rest you can. Your heart and mind will heal better if you keep your body healthy and calm. I just can't imagine the sorrow you and your friend are experiencing. I have my own sorrow, but without the added burden of such terrible shock. You, your friend, and your sweet Angel Duke are all in my thoughts and prayers.
My heart is battered and bruised, but I will not let it break. It holds such precious cargo, I must protect it now. (Susie Squillions)
"Memories of loved ones are like songs in our soul." Margaret Wakeley
BUDDY GUY AYRES~LYNCH'S RESIDENCY:
KING BING THE GOD CAT'S RESIDENCY:
In one of the stars, I shall be living.
In one of them, I shall be laughing.
And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing when you look at the sky at night.
~ The Little Prince, Antoine de Saint-Exupery