Our main concern has to be quality of life, it's a painful decision to make, without a doubt. Don't doubt you made the right decision, I am sorry for your loss.
"Life is too short to worry and to suffer feelings of guilt and regret. Know in your heart that I am fine and that I love you. How can an action taken out of love like yours be wrong? Leave your worries behind and embrace the love I am sending you. My love will help you heal and get peace. That is my wish for you.” So I am sending Lucy's message to you. Makoa would tell you that she loves you forever! After 4 months, I am realizing, or trying to realize, that the moment we decided to send them to the Bridge, we made the decision out of a place of deep love. None of us-- in a bazillion years-- would ever let anything harm our babies. So if you can, try & remember you chose because you loved Makoa. From what you wrote, she wasn't going to get better...even though our brain tricks us into 'wondering'. She had lost control. Couldn't walk/run anymore. You gave the unselfish, loving gift to your girl despite how hard it was...and still is. Come here often. Extra hugs, Kasey
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