My heart goes out to you after saying goodbye to your sweet Patches. I know how devastated and heartbroken you are feeling. This pain of loss is so deep because we love our dear companions so much.Please do not blame yourself. We can not foresee things that are about to happen. We do the best we can possibly do for our babies. Patches knows that you love her and she knows that everything you did was for her. She will remember the life full of love, security and happiness that you gave her. Torturing yourself with "What if" and "If only" will make this grief so much harder to deal with. I know from experience because I did just that for weeks and weeks and weeks after we said goodbye to our gorgeous beagle, Bella, 15 weeks and 2 days ago. Eventually, I let go of the guilt and blame and came to accept that I did my best and everything I did was out of pure love and devotion to Bella. I would have loved it to have a different ending, but I can not change that. Now I try to keep my focus on how much I love her and how absolutely privileged I feel to have been chosen to be her mum. I was so lucky and so were you. Even though you only had 2 1/2 years with dear Patches, I know that you would not trade that for anything. Not even if it would take away this pain. Our lives are made so much richer for having had Patches and Bella by our sides.Love her brother and cherish the time you have with him....we all know, no matter how long we have them it is never enough time. Yes, you will experience pain and grief when you lose him too, but you will have a blessed life with him first. Enjoy that life with him.I wish you peace and healing.Take care.
What a gorgeous girl, wow. I just wanted to reach out. Send my love and tell you I am so genuinely sorry for your loss and for how it happened.
I cannot imagine driving to the ER and my baby die on the way. I am so sorry. My heart hurts for you.I am sending to you all of the love my recently broken heart can muster.Please know you are not alone.This is the best place for you to be and every single one of us is here to listen and be there for you.I'm so sorry.Sending my love,Angelena
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