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Shanamylove

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Mybeautifulboy, first off let me say how sorry I am for the loss of Bosco. It seems like every time I meet someone new here that seems to be the dreadful introduction. Yes November 29, 2018 is a day I will forever hate. I had no idea those plug ins could cause so many health problems in dogs. It makes me wonder if Shana's supposed heart attack was caused by them. I had inquired about a necropsy but they told me that even with a necropsy sometimes the exact cause of death may not be known. I wish I had known about the plug ins at the time of her death for I surely would have had it performed. I have gotten better in dealing with her passing. I try to keep as much as possible. But I must admit that I can so relate to you when you say at this time last year she was alive and so on and so forth regarding the counting down of time. We have little Chip left and I truly love him but Shana was my girl. She was my shadow, my roommate, my friend, my love, my everything. I remember sleeping all the way on the edge of the bed just so that she could spread out and be comfortable. I remember thinking wait a minute, whose the human?? How I wish I could have those times with her.
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155, what did he mean by "the environment"? On another note, I'm so glad that we have this forum to express our love, loss and grief for our beloved pets. I'm so grateful that there is no hate here, with so much hate going on today and finally I'm extremely grateful for the support and understanding only we can offer each other. Our families and friends try to be supportive but unless you have been through this devastating loss, one cannot imagine what it is truly like. As a co worker put it to me, losing a pet is like losing a human.
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Hi everyone carol etc.

I too have not been on here as frequently.  I put my sweet yorkie Napoleon down on December 14th which is now  59 days ago and the overwhelming grief truly does get better   - it will never go away but it is not as "numbing" as it was. So for all you "newbies" HANG IN THERE (esp itcannotbetrue)  and count all your other blessings - all we can do   😉 

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Shanamylove I'm not sure what he meant. He just shook his head and said it in a question form. ' the environment'? I think he meant the pollution in the air or something. Something that there's no control of . I've read where losing a pet can have a far worse effect on a person than losing a human. It may sound bad to say, but personally I felt nothing near as close as the devastation I feel at Henry's passing then I did with close family members.
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TODAY VALENTINES DAY IS A VERY TOUGH DAY FOR ME - ANOTHER "first".  My Napoleon would have been 13 today (a "teenager" in human years).  it has been 2 months to the day since i last saw him.
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The ' firsts' are extremely hard to go through aren't they. I'm sorry.
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Shanamylove

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Elliemae, 155
I'm so sorry this day brings you so much pain. Try to focus on the good times you had with Napoleon. I on the other hand have been doing everything possible not to think of Shana because it is too painful. One day at a time for all of us. Let's try to have the best day we can knowing that our beloved pets would want that for us.

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