I feel your pain because I lost my Max 40 days ago. He was my best friend and at times its so hard to deal with the emotions that I feel. You can still talk to him though. He may not answer in words but his spirit is still very much alive in you and with you. Try and hang in there and GOD bless.
It still such a short time in your healing path. when we love that deeply, it really is a slow process....it will get better with more time and releasing of the pain. I understand you deep the pain is, and I'm sending blessings your way. Judylinn
I think most if not all of us have and still do at times feel what you are feeling. In time I think all of us will understand our purpose and what our lives will be like without our beloved pets. Myself, I try and look at it like a chapter in my life where I was blessed to have those 5 1/2 years with my Max. My wife asked me a great question when she asked me if I would rather not have had him those years and never had even met my Max or be thankul for the years I did have him. I wouldn't take anything back as I cant even imagine me never had having him in my life. The pain is unbearable at times but the love that he gave me can never be replaced and I hold that deep in my heart. Hang in there and GOD bless.
Please don't be too hard on yourself as so little time has gone by since your precious Tucker passed.
Your purpose in life will come to you when the time is right.
Please don't be concerned about an untidy house as mine is the same. I too have lost interest in things that used to interest me, I used to read and read but now just can't get involved in a book. My hobbies too writing and painting give me no pleasure and I feel like tossing them all out.
I really like what Mario said about rather not have had him and missing out on those wonderful years ....... and I too wouldn't take anything back. I lost my old Rudicat of 17 yrs three weeks ago and am shortly to lose my 16-yr old cavalier so I too know all about anguish. It's quite overwhelming and I so feel your pain.
Susan said it will come back and it takes time, and she should know as she has lost so much. I will try and hold on to that and I hope you can too.
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