I am so, so sorry for the loss of your precious Bobby Bear, I am so sorry for the pain and heartache that you and your family are going through.
Such cute names for both Bobby Bear and Teddy Bear, I love those names, the photo of Bobby Bear is so adorable, I can see how loving him would be so easy.
I think you have done a great job in explaining how unique Bobby Bear is, the way you have described his antics and the fun loving way he would play and crawl on your shoulder is so sweet.
Your pain is so new and raw right now, your heart is shattered....as are your children's and Teddy's, he is lost and probably a bit confused as to where Bobby is. I can only imagine how hard it is going to be for you to be the main support for your children and also for Teddy, give Teddy lots of love and attention right now, he too is grieving.
Visit here as often as you need, the people here all understand the pain you are feeling, such a wonderful group of people on here. Grieve as long as you need, grieving has no time limit, so no need to rush or push yourself. I find writing about my little girl Bella has helped, sharing her funny adventures and stories with everyone has helped in the healing process, maybe you would like to do the same.
I am so sorry for your loss, sending positive healing thoughts to you and your family.
Sincerely, Don & Vera