How sad that a person has nothing better to do than seek out people in pain and parade their ignorance and lack of empathy for the world to see. Humans can be so cruel and ridiculous. Although I completely understand why you would be upset and angry over this, do not feed their fire. I am so sorry you lost your beloved Benni. I think we all worry that we will forget things about them we want...need...to keep close to our hearts. We scan our memories frantically making certain we hold each and every memory as near to our hearts as we can. I have been worried as well that I will forget a memory or forget what it felt like to lie my head on my baby girl's tummy and listen to her breathe while she slept. Moments like that and details...we never lose. In the beginning after the loss we spend a great deal of time trying to make sense of what has happened and pick ourselves up just enough to go on, but the memories...they stay. You will never forget his face or the details of the time you spent together. They are apart of you. Blessings on your healing journey.
"And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one creature makes a void so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of eternity can fill it up!" ~Charles Dickens Angela