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Dearest Kitty's mommy It's really hard to console another when your own heart is breaking from the new loss of your precious baby. The best thing is for the two of you be there for each other. It's the only thing you can do. Cry together, talk together, share your memories with each other. It helps to talk about it with another that understands. Oh I know it's hard! When I first lost my sweet Mesha all I wanted to do is stay to myself and not talk to anyone. I had to deal with my loss in my own way. When the time came that I was ready to talk I came back to Rainbow Bridge. It took me 6 months to be able to come here and share my story about my baby girl. Each person has their own way in dealing with the loss. Just be there for one another honey. Share these words with your friend. Know that your babies live. They live again in a new home with a family of Angels and our babies being cared for and never to be sick again. They are healthy and they run and play. Your Kitty and your friend's Rex will always be looking down on you. they will run and play and chase each other. All animals living in harmony as one huge family. Your babies know that you will be together again one day. Their spirit is around you. It's hard having only their spirit to love but think about this, what if they had never came into our life, what if they had not had you and your friend to be their mommy. There was no one Else that could have done it better , no one else that could have loved them more then you, You were the best mommy's. So the Dance you had was the most wonderful dance in your life. It is forever. The tow of you need to get together and create a scrap book for your babies. Tell their story , put pictures, hair. This Will help in the healing. It helped me. Your babies listen for your words to them. There is a golden cord that is used for visits and signs and is used to communicate with our babies. I hope in some way this might help you and your friend. I pray for you to be able to find a bit of piece and confort. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your friend. God Bless (((Kitty ))) ((((Rex))) we love you precious darlings xoxoxoxoxoxxo I lost my precious Miss Kitty on September 23rd of this year, and one of my best friends just recently lost her 14-year-old dog, Rex. He was her baby for sure! She knew him since he was in the womb! (She knew his mother while she was pregnant). So, we are both going through a VERY difficult time, especially with the holidays. How can I help my friend when I am grieving so much myself? Any ideas? I'm Miss Kitty's mommy. __________________ Tonya Mesha Gails mommy Babies and Maggie Mae's too at the bridge
Mommy to living baby Kit Kat AND as of 7/14/2010 Cotton (puppy)
For the love of our babies
They are the reason
Forever and Always Forever and a Day
Oh what a love is the love of our babies
A love like no other. Love drops fall
MY PRECIOUS SWEET GIRL Mesha Gail My Very Heart and your Shane's too
REMEMBERING MERCY xoxoxox oh what a love.
REMBERING MAX passed 12/1/2009 xoxoxox We love you MAX xoxoxo
Shane and I love you.
My true register date is Jan. 2006 ****** it took me that long before I cold talk about my loss.