Thank you Tail11, bear62 and Catladykaren for your responses. I don't know what it was, and I would not have found it strange but for the piece of white fur in my hand. I was a lovely moment and I am hoping and praying that we all get some signs from our babies to let us know that they are ok. I do believe Molly, and all our babies, were gifts. Molly had a lot of health issues in her short life, although fortunately was well most of the time. Someone said "you were just unlucky picking her". I wasnt! I was so, so lucky picking her. I couldn't have wished for a more loving, gentle, sweet little girl and I wouldn't change a moment of it. I think this goes for all of us here, that however dreadful the end was, we would not have changed the time we had with them to spare ourselves this grief. Love and hugs to you all xxx
"If the sky comes falling down, for you, there's nothing in this world I wouldn't do"