I agree with Judylinn, I believe their spirits have the ability to be with us and send us signs.
I haven't read that book, but I will ask for a copy. In my grief over the loss of Chipper, I have found that love doesn't cause grief, it is the absence of being able to express that love. The love remains on both ends, we just aren't physically able to express it as we have in the past. Finding a different way to express the love helps heal the grief. Some people write, others have pictures and memorials, etc. Lacjudie, Macy was a beautiful little girl. Your love for her is evident. Please continue to share with us about Macy.
Momma's Chipper Boy (9/19/95 - 1/30/11) My heart, my love, my buddy! I miss you and love you so, so much! I can't wait to see you at the bridge! Love, Mommy Lady "Ladybugs" (8/2/03 - 6/5/17) My sweet girl. Thanks for the walks, playtime, sock collection, boo boo kisses and love you gave all of us. We will miss you dearly! Until we meet again...we love you!