Hi Shelly, I’m really sorry about Java’s passing. I know how much it hurts. I understand how upside down it all feels right now. You’re probably wondering if it all really happened. It’s so confusing in the beginning, you can’t stand all the reminders at home but you don’t want to be away. I really feel for you💔.
This was a really good first step. This forum that Ginny created is a God send for us all, we are all at different places of loss but will reach out to each other to offer words of comfort and true empathy. Write as much and whenever you’d like, share your story about your beloved Java. It really helps. Your grief is raw, try to be extra gentle with yourself. Your other babies will need you as you grieve and your emotions are so sharp you’ll need to try to keep your strength up. I lived off protein bars and shakes for awhile. Most of all Shelly, you’re not alone, hugs,,,,,
Lynn, Tankie’s mom, forever