Yes, my husband and I are grieving differently over our loss. I still cry and visit this site for comfort. I stare at pictures and sleep with her favorite toy. He doesn't believe this is healthy. So I grieve in private. But that is not to say my husband isn't grieving. His is more internal and tries to be strong about it as he learns to move forward without a pet in the house. Everyone expresses their grief in their own way. Some try to overcome it and others just allow it to be. Whatever the road you take, there is no way around the sadness.