I am so very sorry to read about your little man. He is such a handsome boy...especially love his expressive, gorgeous brown eyes!Thank you for your post on Lucy's thread. After Lucy passed, it took me a long time to be able to breathe, sleep, eat. My mind wouldn't let me think of anything else because I kept replaying the last days, the last moments. I missed my heart & soul girl so much. Nothing else mattered.
But with the help of the compassionate people here @ the forum, I learned to take it one day at a time-- sometimes one hour or even one minute at a time. It probably doesn't feel like it now...but you will get through this wicked time. Please keep talking to Opieb. He is right there with you because your bond is forever. Ask for & watch for little 'signs' from your baby. No matter how insignificant it might seem, or even sound a little bit cuckoo...the signs helped me so much. Still do. I'd see cardinals in the back yard. Lucy used to love them-- would stop in her tracks when a red cardinal came to the bird feeders. Dragonflies, butterflies, feathers, wind chimes-- finding a lost toy-- all made me sad but comforted me too. It was as if Lucy was telling me to 'take a deep, deep breathe, calm your heart, I'm right here beside you.' The love remains. Opieb knows how much you love him. He can feel your love wrapped around him. Keep coming here. We all truly understand the fierce pain & the hollow heart feeling. Please take care.Hugs,Kasey
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