It's been 2 1/2 months since I had to put my sweet little Sunshine to sleep. I miss her so much and have been grieving deeply. So much so, my health was being affected. Finding this website has given me much solace.
During the passing weeks I have spent a lot of time with, “Coulda, Shoulda, and Woulda”, as have many of you. It just breaks my heart further. My only reprieve was the day the vet told me she had cancer I knew I had to send her off to heaven the next day. She was only 11 and we were soulmates. From the minute our eyes met we knew we were made for each other!
Recently, my doctor loaned me a book, “How to Survive the Loss of a Love.” It has made a huge impact in my recovery. I’m not much of a reader, but each page is very short. The most it took me to read a page was maybe a minute and a half, some only 5 seconds. Since reading this book I have been able to rationalize some of what I have been going through and what I need to do next. If you need some extra comfort I encourage you to read this book.
God blessed us so we can be a blessing to others.
Lucy, Sunshine and my new kitty, Missy
Lucy D. Blascovich