Please Both RW Paws and Tipperdipper if you can't hear anything else through the pain yet please
hear this - Your babies have not left you. When a bond is so tightly intertwined between your souls
there is no way to break that bond.
When we lose someone we Love we don't stop Loving them.
LOVE NEVER DIES.
Not ever - it can't. And when all of the intense pain and noise begins to quieten
you will see them out of the corner of your eye or you will catch a wift of their scent- or
something that only they could do will happen or come to you in a dream.
Grief is awful and there is nothing else like this pain.
I am divorced - when I was married I buried my son- at that time I became a Certified Grief Counselor- I used the same graveside service for my Bear as I did for my son.
Love is Love and Grief is Grief- there is no difference.
Please know that when we lose someone we love we don't stop loving them -
LOVE NEVER DIES.
The soul bound connection that is between our babies and ourselves is forever.
Nothing - not death- tears -grief - or sadness will ever break the ties between us for those ties are made of LOVE so strong that NOTHING will ever sever those connections.
Grief is not something we get over but something that we learn -slowly- over time- to incorporate into our lives until it becomes a part of us like our bones and our breath.
Please come back and post some pictures so we can get to know him through you.
If you read the beginning of any one of our threads from the first page you will see yourself.
Please know that we all understand here and we are all here for you.
You Are In My Thoughts.