"May fond memories of Emmie & Charlee warm your heart always" Charlikin, i am so sorry for your loss of your sweet Emmie and dear charlie. Truly my heart grieves for you my friend.
Getting thru these 7 mos since my baby dog Tuffy passed has been the the hardest thing I've ever done. Yes they do get right into the middle of our hearts and our lives. My terrible non stop pain & tears of the early months has abated. I remember thinking if I could just stop hurting, things would be better. Unfortunately, when that did occur I suddenly realized there was something worse than the pain. Tuffy was gone, my tears did not/could not bring him back. The name of your thread "Dull Ache" is very appropriate. The daily loneliness for him is truly that.
Thank you so much for sharing your story with us here. Your love for Emmie & Charlee is so evident. I am sorry you are hurting so. Hang in my friend. Time is our only friend on this sad journey.
Also, so many people are just meanies. Did they never learn "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all!" I pity people who don't "get it" or say "it was just a cat or dog or whatever beloved animal friend passed" They have never had and probably never will have the "special bond" that we all here have been blessed with.
I send you love & wishes for a better tomorrow. Just take it one minute, one hour or one day at a time. You were most certainly a wonderful Momma Kitty. You loved and cared for them, and they loved you. You did nothing wrong charlikin.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal;
Love leaves a memory no one can steal.
Tuffy, My Puppy Love
June 20, 2005-July 26, 2010
Becky Leigh, Queen of my Heart
December 2010-November 10, 2015