Tonya
Your reply to Susie at the cancer chat room:
Most of us don't have money to give you and am a bit surprised that you would even ask. As far as I know this sight Is not to be used for your own finical purpose. I think that you need to re-group! The finical needs of your sick baby needs to lie on your shoulders, not ours.

It's funny I've never heard Susie mention you as a friend.
We have been here for 5 years are more and we do not know you
and you sure don't know Susie. She never asked you for anything.
She is the most considerate kind person
and you took it upon yourself to hurt her and push a knife deeper
into her heart as if it were not already breaking. 

Yes this should go to you in a one on one but your ugly words
to her reply was uncalled for.  So her message in regards to
her financial help for her baby in no way included you and by all
means she never was asking for help to begin with
You read it wrong.
I have never done this before to anyone on this forum,
AND this is really not the place to be doing this as there
parents here hurting for the loss of their precious baby so
there is no time for any nonsense like this here.
Just wanted to let you know she does not know you so why
would you consider yourself a friend, AND a friend would never
say anything like you did to her.  her heart is broken into a
million pieces right now and it is plan to see that you are not one of
us because if you were you would  REALLY understand how deep
a real love is for a furchild.
That's all I have to say to the matter.

She has lost her precious TJ. One week ago yesterday she had to help
him to the Bridge.  So don't you be sending her anymore ugly
replies.  We are of pure heart it's plain to see you are not.

Tonya Mesha Gails mommy Babies and Maggie Mae's too at the bridge
Mommy to living baby Kit Kat AND as of 7/14/2010 Cotton (puppy)
For the love of our babies
They are the reason
Forever and Always Forever and a Day
Oh what a love is the love of our babies
A love like no other. Love drops fall

MY PRECIOUS SWEET GIRL Mesha Gail My Very Heart and your Shane's too
**http://RainbowsBridge.com/residents/MESHA001/Resident.htm

REMEMBERING MERCY xoxoxox oh what a love.
**http://RainbowsBridge.com/residents/MERCY0031/Residents.htm

REMBERING MAX passed 12/1/2009 xoxoxox We love you MAX xoxoxo
Shane and I love you.

My true register date is Jan. 2006 ****** it took me that long before I cold talk about my loss.
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Susie_Squillions
Thank you for posting this, Miss Tonya.  I think we can get things straightened out.  My hope is that Dalmation didn't mean to hurt me and probably wasn't aware of how the message might have sounded to someone else.  She also wasn't aware of the fact that T.J. is gone now.  Maybe if she had been, she would have understood where I was coming from in the first place.  It's "just" a misunderstanding, but considering the timing, it was a big misunderstanding.  I hope we can move past it now.
My heart is battered and bruised, but I will not let it break. It holds such precious cargo, I must protect it now. (Susie Squillions)

"Memories of loved ones are like songs in our soul." Margaret Wakeley

T.J.'S RESIDENCY:
http://RainbowsBridge.com/residents/TJ006/Resident.htm

BUDDY GUY AYRES~LYNCH'S RESIDENCY:
http://www.rainbowsbridge.com/residents/Buddy128/resident.HTM

KING BING THE GOD CAT'S RESIDENCY:
http://rainbowsbridge.com/residents/BINGO009/Resident.htm

In one of the stars, I shall be living.
In one of them, I shall be laughing.
And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing when you look at the sky at night.
~ The Little Prince, Antoine de Saint-Exupery
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Tonya
Susie I understand . You for all these years have been
such an asset here at this forum. An Angel that has
taken her wings and wrapped them around so many.
I'm so sorry Susie and my heart has been breaking
with yours.   I'm sure I'm not alone  and know that
other Angels that have been here so long, would have
have stepped up for you too.
You know me, I never say a word out of the way to
to anyone.  I too understand there is a right and wrong
way to confront a misunderstanding.
I'm glad we can in deed move past this.

Love you Susie 

((( T.J & Buddy )))  loving you is what we do best.  xoxoxox
Tonya Mesha Gails mommy Babies and Maggie Mae's too at the bridge
Mommy to living baby Kit Kat AND as of 7/14/2010 Cotton (puppy)
For the love of our babies
They are the reason
Forever and Always Forever and a Day
Oh what a love is the love of our babies
A love like no other. Love drops fall

MY PRECIOUS SWEET GIRL Mesha Gail My Very Heart and your Shane's too
**http://RainbowsBridge.com/residents/MESHA001/Resident.htm

REMEMBERING MERCY xoxoxox oh what a love.
**http://RainbowsBridge.com/residents/MERCY0031/Residents.htm

REMBERING MAX passed 12/1/2009 xoxoxox We love you MAX xoxoxo
Shane and I love you.

My true register date is Jan. 2006 ****** it took me that long before I cold talk about my loss.
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Tricia
Tonya,  I've been here one month short of 5 years too. We have seen the good, the bad and ugly posted on the Forum! Friendships destroyed.Is this what our babies want to see? I think not. Why did we all come here?  For comfort, support, peace and understanding. Some seem to forget what it's all about. Susie has been here for all of us, through the good times and the bad.  We have been here for each other, through prayers for sick babies and those of our babies who have passed on.
We have done the best we can  to support one another. For someone to be so cold and post such a hurtful remark is beyond me, but I'm seen it done before to others in my 5 years here.So very sad to one who has given her heart to this Forum and to other members who have only tried to help those in need.

Bless your heart Tonya and Susie!

Tricia


Tricia, Burton&Ozzie's Mom

"Good night sweet prince:And flights of angels sing thee to thy rest!"
William Shakespere's Hamlet
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LucysMom
Dear Susie,
 I'm so sorry that, during your grieving, someone can treat you so cruel. You have been an angel to so many here for so many years! Tricia is so right, do our babies want us to argue and complain about these little things? NO! There has been way too many friendships lost on this board because of people having a total misunderstanding of someones words. I don't come here often at all anymore but sometimes we need to stand up for special people that deserve it! ((((Susie, Tonya, Tricia)))))
Monica Glaser
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dalmatian

To ALL,  I am sorry that I read the post In the wrong way.   Never meant to cause any pain to any body.  I can see that most doesn't allow you to make a mistake.  Suzie and I have been able to work It out.  Again, I am sorry.  Mistakes and poor judgement happens.  I'm just human.   Sorry again & again.  I'm not a bad person as one stated.  dalmatian

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Susie_Squillions
Dalmation and I have resolved the issue here.  Thank you all so much for supporting me, but please understand that Dalmation is a good person who just didn't understand what I had written.  She and I have been in touch, and we have come to the conclusion that even though we met by bumping heads, it must have been the only way for our Bridge Kids to bring us together. Haha. We've worked things out, and I feel a nice relationship blossoming.  Please open your hearts to her and give her a chance.  Our initial meeting is all water under the bridge (so to speak ~ notice it's "bridge" with a lower case "b"). 

We all arrived here for the same reason, and it's so easy to get our lines crossed when emotions run high. 

xoxoxo to all of you!


My heart is battered and bruised, but I will not let it break. It holds such precious cargo, I must protect it now. (Susie Squillions)

"Memories of loved ones are like songs in our soul." Margaret Wakeley

T.J.'S RESIDENCY:
http://RainbowsBridge.com/residents/TJ006/Resident.htm

BUDDY GUY AYRES~LYNCH'S RESIDENCY:
http://www.rainbowsbridge.com/residents/Buddy128/resident.HTM

KING BING THE GOD CAT'S RESIDENCY:
http://rainbowsbridge.com/residents/BINGO009/Resident.htm

In one of the stars, I shall be living.
In one of them, I shall be laughing.
And so it will be as if all the stars were laughing when you look at the sky at night.
~ The Little Prince, Antoine de Saint-Exupery
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