Vickytoby, that's heartbreaking and I'm so sorry you've experienced this. I'm a firm believer that no one, animal or human, goes "before their time" or "on accident." The soul knows when it's time for them to leave the physical body, and him being out there that foggy night is not a coincidence. Why they leave when they do? This is a mystery and not for us to know. But the good news for Toby is he went quickly. His sweet kitty soul is on its own little journey, and I know he knows how much you love and miss him, and I'm sure he still is there in spirit comforting you. I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. Just know that there was nothing you could have done and it was out of your hands. We are all trying to get through this day by day. The pain is unbearable but somehow we are all going to make it through, day by day.
Love is eternal & 'death' cannot sever the bond we created. The spirit never dies. The Love, bond, & spirit are ours to cherish always. That is a gift that will never be taken away~