I just wanted to write something about the 2 years anniversary of losing my beloved black girl cat MINT.
After she went i spent a lot of time on here and it really helped me to cope with the heartbreaking grief i felt.
She was a beautiful little black girl, twin sister to Ocelot ( a lush tortie and white),
i nursed MINT for 5 weeks, she had cancer.I had to let her go on Valentines day 2010.
My husband and I and Ocelot suffered immensly.
My husband was ill for months. I suffered extreme anxiety and depression and Ocelot suffered with cat grief and was poorly about 4 months after.
The vet said it was cat grief/shock.
Life without Mint was almost impossible. How do you cope.
We had this little cat since she was 6 weeks old, Ocelot and her arrived into our lives and every day was beautiful.
BUT somehow you just cope dont you?? You get thru the firt few months that seem impossible.
A year after we moved home. This was the best thing to do for Ocelot. She was not going upstairs in our old house, the memories, she would only use 2 rooms,
So.............................we moved and she has become the spoilt" only "cat who is treated like a Queen (cos she is one !) every hour of her day, she is 15 now and with extreme love, good food,not leaving her alone too long and moving home, we got her thru it.
Tomorrow it is 2 years since my baby Mint left ...i was with her when she passed over. It was the worse thing i have ever been thru in my life.
But i am still here 2 years later, it is corny to say that time heals, but it does. i didnt know how i would get thru half an hour, let alone one month.
I cant say i look forward to valentines day any more, i cant stop thinking of our last days together, i am lighting candles for my little black girl, i feel extremely emotional,but i know that she gave us so much happiness from 1996 to 2010....
I just wanted to say that this web site helped me so so much, i had to pay a visit , i hope that this may help anyone who has just lost a beloved pet...the pain is the worse, i know that it was easier as i had her twin. Ocelot kept me going..and still does, so it isnt quite the same as having nothing left, but we were so worried about Ocelot for ages losing her twin.
Mint was an angel cat and i know she is with the angels.
I dreamt a lot of her after..............then nothing...then some dreams came back, i know she is there...watching us.................
i miss her every day of my life, she is in my prayers every day of my life.
I cant believe that 2 years has passed without her.
Thanku for listening
I love you Mint xxx God Bless u baby girl xxxxxxx